The Consequences of Unforgiveness
Scripture tells us of the importance of pardoning those who have offended us. There are a variety of reasons why unforgiveness can be harmful. First, it gives root to bitterness, and when we’re steeped in bitterness we are fixated on unhealthy, negative feelings. Unforgiveness also hinders our prayer life. Unconfessed sin creates static in our relationship with God, which is why it’s critical to forgive others before we pray or worship. (Matt. 5:23-24) Unforgiveness damages our witness. How can we share how Jesus has forgiven our sins and saved us from their eternal consequences if there’s not a hint of forgiveness in our own life? Most importantly, unforgiveness stifles our spiritual growth. God will not bless sinful actions, so when we’re mired in unforgiveness we can’t expect Him to shower us with His blessings. By persisting in disobedience, we disrupt intimate fellowship with God and put ourselves at risk of spiritual stagnation. If there’s anyone you need to forgive, don’t let another day pass without extending grace to them.
